I Am A Griever

Scott – Music and grief

Scott discusses the relationship between music and grief

The First Fathers’ Day Without Dad

When you lose a person in the generation before you, you begin to think about what they meant to you. When you lose a parent, you think about all they meant, and you hoped you either lived up to the best of yourself, or in some cases where the parenting was not as instructive or kind, you hope you’ve raised yourself beyond difficult circumstances.

Angie – Preparing for Grief on the Job

Angie explains her thoughts on fitting in and doing the right thing

Keeping Records

I pulled the photos out of their envelope one at a time, turning over each one to carefully record the date, place, and people in the photo. Sometimes, I included comments. “Apple picking in Hamilton with Pop Pop, Fall, 2023. You loved the wagon ride!”. I slipped each picture into an empty pocket in my son’s photo album.

You Can’t Always Get What You Want

“Happiness is a choice.” A friend of mine posted this quote on Facebook the other day. She then asked others what that quote meant to them. The responses were interesting and expected, and some were even inspiring. It’s so easy to say “I choose to be happy” when life is going well. On the other…

Adam – Advice

Adam shares his advice about losing and remembering a loved one

Joyce – Using my grief experience to help people

Joyce talks about the positive experiences she has in helping other people in grief

Adam – Crying and singing

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Adam talks about how crying and singing helps him cope even at the cemetary

Betsy – Mother’s day

Betsy shares her challenges around mother’s day when her adopted son died

John – My Story

John tells the story of his wife became ill suddenly and died

Reflections on Mother’s Day

Mother’s day is a holiday where we show appreciation and care for the maternal roles in our lives. However, this holiday can feel very overwhelming for those of us who are grieving the death of a mother figure, a mother grieving their child, or those of us grieving the loss of not being able to become mothers ourselves.

Jessica M – Continuing Bonds

Jessica talks about the values of continuing bonds and connections with people who are not here anymore. She gives some examples of things that have made her more connected to her Mom.