Death of A Loved One

When Death Feels like a Thief

In the heart of my grief, at my frailest, all I could see was what was no more. I grieved all that was stolen from me by death; love, security and even my very self. Had I known the value of having every pocket of who I was, picked bare by grief, I would not have fought so hard to hold onto it all.

Children’s Grief and Loss Toolkit (ages 6-12) [FREE Downloadable PDF]

Grief is a natural experience, and is considered one of the most stressful life events a person can experience. 1 in 14 children under the age of 18 will experience the death of someone close to them. Every year, approximately 200 000 children are grieving the death of someone in their extended family or community.…

John – My Story

John tells the story of his wife became ill suddenly and died

Russell – “Practical things you can do”

Russell discusses things that give him comfort. Russell continues to grieve the perinatal death of his son.

Doodles

On the first anniversary, I invited people who would understand – friends who knew Marshal’s love of art, and his creative spirit. They all came.

I had copied several of Marshal’s doodles of incomplete characters and creatures, with some finished for the kids to color. I eagerly watched to see which doodle or drawing each person chose.

Kara – “Meals”

Kara discusses food shopping for one and learning what she as an individual likes. Kara continues to grieve the death of her partner.

Jean – It’s all about love

Jean talks about losing her husband to a heart attack on valentines day

Kim – Self care

Kim talks about looking after yourself and how much it helps. In particular be kind to yourself

Joyce – Mothers supporting mothers in grief

Joyce talks about the value of a support network of other mothers who have lost

Zoreena – Burnout and counseling

Zoreena talks about her father’s decline in a nursing home during COVID

Katie – Coping strategies

Katie explains her coping strategies

Cheryl – “Complicated Grief”

Cheryl discusses unresolved grief.