Death of a Partner

Holly – The symbolic nature of death

Holly discusses doing art, the symbolic nature of urns and the denial of death

Doug M – “Planning for Death”

Doug talks about how planning for a funeral and life after his wife’s death was helpful. Doug continues to grieve the death of his first wife.

Kara – “Precious memories”

Kara talks about a special gift of memories. Kara continues to grieve the death of her partner.

Karyn and Aidan – Going forward

Karyn and Aidan talk about Aidan’s wedding after John died and how they continue to cope

Kara – “Getting over the dying part”

Kara describes the process of moving past the traumatic memory of her partner’s death to reflect on the beautiful moments of their thirty years together.

Shannon – Growing through Grief

Shannon discusses post traumatic growth and how it can be an expectation

Kara – Starting a grief journey again

Kara explains how Covid-19 has made her have to relearn tools to help in her grief. The pandemic changed the way Kara continued to grieve the loss of her partner.

Shannon – Losing is a life skill

Shannon shares about losing her husband to suicide, her parents and her father-in-law. She felt broken and to be able to take care of her kids and her self seemed overwhelming. It took someone telling her that you can heal from trauma to give her hope for healing.

Hope – Different lenses

Hope shares about the differences in experiences between losing her father and her Mom losing a spouse

Jean – My own grief and being a professional counsellor

Jean shares about being a counselor and going through her own grief

Shannon – Guilt vs Shame

Shannon talks about guilt can be a part of the grieving process but shame has to do with “is there something wrong with me”

Andrea – Grieving during a pandemic

Andrea discusses the challenges of grieving during a pandemic