Death of a Partner

John – What I have learned

John explains how he has changed since his wife died and now looking back what he would say to his self right after his loss

Doug M – “It’s Ok to have a new life”

Doug tells how he has had mixed emotions but that ultimately it’s OK to have a new life. Doug continues to grieve the death of his first wife.

Karyn and Aidan – The what if game and guilt

Karyn and Aidan explain how they have dealt with guilt

Karyn and Aidan – Hospital and the COVID restrictions

Karyn and Aidan talk about the challenges of the restrictions and the impact of COVID patients on John’s care

Kara – “Getting over the dying part”

Kara describes the process of moving past the traumatic memory of her partner’s death to reflect on the beautiful moments of their thirty years together.

John – Dating again

John talks about being asked by his daughters if he would ever date again

Karyn and Aidan – Support.

Karyn and Aidan discuss how much the support they received helped

Shannon – Losing is a life skill

Shannon shares about losing her husband to suicide, her parents and her father-in-law. She felt broken and to be able to take care of her kids and her self seemed overwhelming. It took someone telling her that you can heal from trauma to give her hope for healing.

John – Empower yourself

John shares his thoughts about how to support someone in grief and his processes

Kara – “Same Sex Couple”

Kara talks about never having discussed being a same sex couple with most of her family. Kara continues to grieve the death of her partner.

Andrea – My Story

Andrea shares her story of losing her husband during a pandemic

John – What to do now

John talks about the time after the initial period of grief